So you’ve met this super sexy looking guy. You feel the mojo building, and you can hardly contain yourself…You want to kiss him so badly, you’re going to pop! And then it happens, and there’s no sizzle, just some terrible fizzle as your desire lurches to a halt. What to do? Cut and run bait, or see if there’s a way to make this work? It’s a question many a girl has pondered…
With kissing often considered the barometer for sexual compatibility, and the strength of desire and attraction, if the first kiss with a new guy doesn’t make you quiver, or at least show serious quiver potential, many a gal has been known to race for the door. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
But if there’s something really good about this guy, it might be worth spending a little time tutoring him…With the right kind of attention, he can move from ‘remedial’ to ‘head of the class’ with some encouragement and guidance – you just need to know there could still be a drop out rate despite the ‘one-on-one’ attention.
So how do you approach this quandary without squashing his enthusiasm and ego in one swoop? The Kissing Expert suggests that while kissing, you can subtly assume the ‘driver’s seat’, and show him how you like to be kissed by kissing him in that fashion – the proverbial ‘lead by example’. Become the sensei. Take the lead in the make-outs. Make it a fun, sexy, playful game.
Sometimes a guy’s innate talents have not had a chance to shine on the field until the right gal makes him a superstar snogger.
